Catechisma

Lord’s Day 31

Q85. How is the kingdom of heaven opened and closed by church discipline?

As Christ commanded: Those who keep sinning even after being warned by other Christians are reported to the church leaders. If they still will not listen, the leaders shut them out of the church community, and God shuts them out of Christ's kingdom. But when these people truly repent and change, they are welcomed back as members of Christ and of the church.

Scripture Proofs — King James Version

1

Matthew 18:15–20

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican. Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

1 Corinthians 5:3–5, 11–13

For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, him that hath so done this deed, In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within? But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.

2

Luke 15:20–24

And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on feet: And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill ; and let us eat, and be merry: For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.

2 Corinthians 2:6–11

Sufficient to such a man this punishment, which of many. So that contrariwise ye rather to forgive , and comfort , lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow. Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm love toward him. For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things. To whom ye forgive any thing, I also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave , for your sakes in the person of Christ; Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.

Parent Guide

Discuss this question together

Discussion Questions

  1. 1

    What steps does the catechism describe for dealing with a church member who keeps sinning?

  2. 2

    What happens when someone who was shut out of the church truly repents?

  3. 3

    Why does the catechism end this section by talking about being welcomed back?

Illustration

When a child runs toward a busy street, a parent pulls the child back. It does not feel gentle, but it is an act of protection. Church discipline works that way. The church pulls someone back from danger with the hope that the person will turn around and come home safely.

Application

Pray for anyone you know who has walked away from the church. Ask God to bring them to repentance. Remember that the goal of discipline is restoration, not rejection. The door stands open for anyone who turns back.